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2018 – first goal

Happy New Year!

You know when you have a goal, a thing you’ve set your mind to and you just keep it in your back pocket thinking “I’ll get to this when I have the time!” – yeah, me too!!

There’s been things that have been slipping far too long

For example, this year, I have decided that I AM going to focus on my physical health, something I have been yearning to focus on, but just never could go about it

I got a personal trainer, but this time it’s different. I have someone that pushes me far beyond my limits. I realized that I am that type of person that needs to be pushed in order to really know my capabilities. In order to go past my limits and beyond.  I mean – I know I can do anything, but having that “push” to excel, is something else. It’s another “drive”. And being pushed is never a bad thing – I need more than just a motivational quote to jump-start my 2018 fuel. So this method it is!!

I’m done being close to pre-diabetic, done with swollen feet and so done with being unhealthy physically.

I call this year- the Transformation Year. A year to be pushed!

Cheers,

Ghuman 

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FITTING TWO LOVE PIECES

Relationship goals are probably the most stressful ones.

Goals are what you set for yourself to achieve

Relationships are supposed to be between two people where love feels like home.

Love between two people is supposed to be stress-free.

Love is stress-free.

However, you then stumble into a relationship where it feels like your dating the editor of a magazine; a critic.

“you shouldn’t be like this”
“you should be doing this”
“you can’t be like that anymore”

And then you start to doubt yourself

Your self being.

The person who you truly are, is no longer there

because now you’re changing for love?

Love isn’t supposed to change your character,

love isn’t supposed to change who you are at all.

I was told that I’m way too emotional,

I was told that I’m hot headed,

I was told that I need to learn to be calm and cool, because cooler heads prevail and take courses.

I left.

You can’t change a person by their character.

You can change habits, not people.

I will always be emotional, I will always I’m impatient, I will always be hot headed.

But I have outlets.

Changing isn’t an outlet for character.

I will always love myself, flaws and all.

Until then I realized truly, the cold hard truth about love.

Someone may be perfect for you, but you may not be perfect for them.

In this case, I wasn’t perfect for him. But later, after judgement day, neither was he.

– Ghuman